Finally Find The Right Woman As a Busy Professional
Or Business Owner – Even With Little Time.
With an individual step-by-step system, finally build a lasting relationship to settle down – without frustration or confusion.
Trusted by over 2.000.000 followers
David Meessen has already helped over 300 professionals and business owner take control of their dating life and attract the right woman to build a life with and happily settle down.
Proven System
Our powerful 4-step process is time-efficient, practical, tailored to your lifestyle and delivers proven results – even if you're busy.
Over 300 Happy Clients
Having coached hundres of men, David knows exactly what works – and what keeps you stuck. No more guessing, no more repeating old patterns.
Specialized for High-Achievers
We work exclusively with driven men who don't have hours to waste. That's why our system is designed to help you find the right woman.
– How They Found Their Dream Partner
What Our Clients Say
Adam, 41
Business Owner
Before
Being a full‒time software engineer and a part‒time dad, Adam struggled to meet someone organically. The missing opportunities have led to a significant level of dissatisfaction for him.
After
Through the coaching program, Adam gained clarity regarding what he was truly seeking in a partner. Moreover, he came to understand his own worth, which empowered him to confidently approach women. Through a step‒by‒step plan, he successfully found his partner within a few weeks.
Gilberto, 28
Technical Program Manager
Before
Gilberto knew he needed to shake things up in his life but didn't have a clue where to start. He hadn't been on a single date for a while, finding himself with zero options. Stuck in a rut and feeling a bit lost, he just didn't knew how to get dates, as meeting someone by chance hasn't worked out so far.
After
Six weeks into coaching with David, Gilberto was enjoying multiple dates a week and soon found his girlfriend out of a variety of options. Simple tips and communication strategies made dating feel natural and authentic for him.
Mike
Investor
Before
Despite Mike's success in his career and having close, high‒quality friendships, he sensed a void in his life. He yearned for a partner who was not only physically appealing but also shared his values and perspectives on life.
After
After analyzing Mike's past experiences, we pinpointed subtle flaws in his communication style. The regular feedback cycle has helped Mike improve his interpersonal communication. He is now finally married a beautiful woman – or in his own words: "I met an amazing, amazing woman! Very traditional, very intelligent and wholesome".
Paul, 36
Business Owner
Before
Paul struggled to navigate communication with women, which made it difficult for him to steer interactions in the desired direction. He couldn't understand why things weren't working out.
After
Paul has now learned the subtle nuances in his communication that he previously overlooked, which were crucial for establishing attraction and navigating social interactions effectively. With a solid communication framework he was able to find the right one and establish a meaningful relationship.
What Are The Next Steps?
– If you are tired of waking up alone and trying to figure it out yourself: Let's talk.
01
Fill out the application form
The first step is to fill out short application form, so we can understand in advance, if and how we can best assist you. Following that, we'll contact you by phone at your preferred time for a brief initial discussion.
02
Preliminary call
Here, we will analyse your current situation. We'll discover what you aim to achieve in your dating life and how your ideal partner looks like. If you're suitable for a free consultation, we'll schedule a follow-up appointment with one of our coaching experts.
03
Free initial consultation
During the consultation, one of our experts will advise you in detail about your situation. You'll learn why your previous attempts at finding a partner haven't been successful. Afterwards, we'll create a personalized step‒by‒step plan that shows you exactly how to find a partner. You can choose to follow this plan on your own or with our support.
STORIES OF OUR CLIENTS
More Happy Relationships
Over the last years we have helped men from over 30 countries across the globe to improve their communication skills, increase their confidence and find the right woman.
Doug, 57
Investor
Before
Before joining the program, Doug had all the external success—wealth, status, a yacht—but still struggled with confidence and mindset in dating. Despite years of experience, he kept attracting the wrong women and couldn’t build the connection he was looking for.
After
"I'm now in an exclusive relationship with an amazing 24-year-old woman. I’ve learned to speak my truth, set boundaries, and approach dating from a place of confidence. And it works—I’ve never felt better."
Brandon
Management Consultant, New York
Before
Before the coaching, Brandon struggled with trying to meet others' expectations and the fear of being judged, which were his main challenges. These concerns significantly hindered his ability to genuinely enjoy dating and even contemplate a happy relationship.
After
"Six months ago, I never imagined I’d be in a fulfilling relationship. Now, I’m meeting her family, things are going great, and I truly understand how a relationship can bring happiness and meaning."
Leo, 50
Business Owner
Before
Before working with the program, he had been going on many dates after a tough breakup—but they felt empty and unfulfilling. Despite his social skills and success, he struggled to find women who truly matched what he was looking for.
After
"Now I’m in a meaningful relationship with someone I genuinely connect with. We can spend six hours together and still have fun—and I’ve learned to turn down the wrong matches without guilt or doubt."
Why Our System Works
Our proven 4-step dating method has already helped hundreds of men attract meaningful relationships, even in the chaos of modern dating.
1
Analysis of Your Situation
We start by understanding where you are in your dating journey and what your relationship goals are. This first step reveals exactly why it hasn’t worked for you so far – like matching with women but never building a real connection, constantly getting friendzoned, or not meeting the right type of women.
2
Developing Your Dating Blueprint
Building on your personal analysis, we resolve insecurities and mindset blocks, help you master essential social dynamics, and set up your personalized blueprint – from real-life interactions to our proven David Meessen Online Dating System.
3
Meeting The Right Women
As you turn matches into real dates, we guide you through every step – from texting to avoiding the common dating mistakes most successful men make. Now, the right type of women will actually enjoy texting you back – and feel genuinely excited to see you again.
4
Leading to
A Fulfilling Relationship
Once you’ve chosen the right woman, we help you turn it into a lasting relationship that feels stable, connected, and truly mutual – one that makes you both genuinely happy, because you’ve understood the guiding principles of a healthy relationship.
THE COACHING TEAM
Your Coaching Team
Our team is passionate about providing tailored support whenever you need it. With expertise in all key areas, we're here to help you find your perfect match.
Jonathan Navarette
Coaching & Support
David Meessen
Head Coach
Fernanda Martins
Relationship Strategy Manager
Klaudia
Client Success Manager
Sibéal
Client Success
James Clark
Client Success
Bradley Clanfield
Client Success
About David Meessen
David Meessen is the founder of Meessen Consulting and a certified Life & Executive Coach (ILI). After struggling for years with social anxiety and a lack of communication skills, David went through the pain of a failed marriage that became the turning point in his life. Determined to change, he immersed himself in personal development and trained with some of the world’s top mentors.
Today, he uses the lessons from his own transformation to help men around the globe overcome their insecurities, build real confidence, and attract meaningful relationships.
With clients in over 30 countries, live seminars, online coaching, and a reach of over two million followers, David has made it his mission to help men avoid the mistakes he once made – and build the lives and relationships they truly want.
Teaching Seminars Across the Globe
Live Seminar in Dublin
In this exclusive seminar, David shared practical strategies for busy high-achieving men who struggle to find a meaningful relationship with little time.
Workshop on Social Dynamics
David gave an in-depth breakdown of fundamental social dynamics, showing dozens of men how to lead social interactions with ease and genuine enjoyment.
Talk on the Principles of
Healthy Relationships
In this talk, David shared his expertise on the guiding principles of healthy relationships – including how to lead from early dates into a committed relationship and set healthy boundaries along the way.
Live Seminar in Dublin
In this exclusive seminar, David shared practical strategies for busy high-achieving men who struggle to find a meaningful relationship with little time.
Workshop on Social Dynamics
David gave an in-depth breakdown of fundamental social dynamics, showing dozens of men how to lead social interactions with ease and genuine enjoyment.
Talk on the Principles of
Healthy Relationships
In this talk, David shared his expertise on the guiding principles of healthy relationships – including how to lead from early dates into a committed relationship and set healthy boundaries along the way.
Live Seminar in Dublin
In this exclusive seminar, David shared practical strategies for busy high-achieving men who struggle to find a meaningful relationship with little time.
Workshop on Social Dynamics
David gave an in-depth breakdown of fundamental social dynamics, showing dozens of men how to lead social interactions with ease and genuine enjoyment.
Talk on the Principles of
Healthy Relationships
In this talk, David shared his expertise on the guiding principles of healthy relationships – including how to lead from early dates into a committed relationship and set healthy boundaries along the way.
Podcasts & Interviews with David Meessen
Interview on Dating and Fitness
David teams up with fitness expert Tony McAleavy to unpack one of the biggest dating myths: that physical appearance – specifically chiseled abs – is the key to attraction.
Podcast on High Performance in Business & Dating
David joins Benedict Behr-Heyder to talk about what it really takes to perform at a high level – not just in business, but also in dating, mindset and health.
Perfect Sleep, Loyalty & Discipline – with Thomas Carty
David sits down with professional heavyweight boxer Thomas Carty to talk about performance habits outside the ring – from sleep routines and nutrition to loyalty, mindset and what it truly means to stay grounded while chasing greatness.
Dating Expert David Meessen: How To Find Meaningful Relationships
In this episode, David gets interviewed on his journey and expertise as a dating coach, offering valuable advice for men seeking the right woman.
Interview on Relationships and Understanding Social Dynamics
David breaks down how to lead in relationships, navigate social dynamics, and show up with confidence in the modern dating world.
Live Radio Show at Newstalk About Clarity in Dating
In this interview, David has shared key insights on how to find a partner that is truly compatible and the mindset shifts men need to build healthy, lasting relationships.
Interview on Dating and Fitness
David teams up with fitness expert Tony McAleavy to unpack one of the biggest dating myths: that physical appearance – specifically chiseled abs – is the key to attraction.
Podcast on High Performance in Business & Dating
David joins Benedict Behr-Heyder to talk about what it really takes to perform at a high level – not just in business, but also in dating, mindset and health.
Perfect Sleep, Loyalty & Discipline – with Thomas Carty
David sits down with professional heavyweight boxer Thomas Carty to talk about performance habits outside the ring – from sleep routines and nutrition to loyalty, mindset and what it truly means to stay grounded while chasing greatness.
Dating Expert David Meessen: How To Find Meaningful Relationships
In this episode, David gets interviewed on his journey and expertise as a dating coach, offering valuable advice for men seeking the right woman.
Interview on Relationships and Understanding Social Dynamics
David breaks down how to lead in relationships, navigate social dynamics, and show up with confidence in the modern dating world.
Live Radio Show at Newstalk About Clarity in Dating
In this interview, David has shared key insights on how to find a partner that is truly compatible and the mindset shifts men need to build healthy, lasting relationships.
Answers to Frequently Asked Questions
How do I know the coaching will actually work for me?
Our system is built on years of experience, proven psychological principles, and real-world success stories. But what truly makes it effective is how personalized it is — we meet you exactly where you are and build a strategy around you. You are unique, but your problems aren't. If you're willing to show up and take action, you'll find the right woman.
How much time do I need to invest each week?
If you sleep 8 hours per night, you have 112 waking hours per week. Can you invest 4-7 % of your time to find the most important relationship of your life, as well as the greatest source of joy and fulfilment? 5-8 hours per week are more than enough for most men.
How much does the coaching cost?
The price depends on several factors — your individual situation, the length and intensity of our work together — so I can’t give you a flat rate upfront.
What I can tell you is this: We’re not some cheap $300 online program where you just get a generic script and a few dating tips recycled from YouTube. With us, you’re getting highly personalized, professional support every step of the way.
We go deep, and the results you’ll get will actually last — even after we’re done working together.
That’s why the investment is higher — and that’s also why it’s worth it.
HOW OUR CLIENTS FOUND THEIR RELATIONSHIP
Harald
Emilian, 30
Software Developer
Chris
Real Estate Professional
Ryan
Tech Industry
Jonas, 32
IT consultant
Basil
Harald
Emilian, 30
Software Developer
Chris
Real Estate Professional
Ryan
Tech Industry
Jonas, 32
IT consultant
Basil
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